Loss is a part of life. I just want you to realize that. You may be going through a loss of somebody you really loved, but you have to understand that this is part of life. In fact, if you think about it, loss or the threat of losing someone you really cared about is part of love.
You know something is truly valuable if it hurts to lose it. You know that you have a real capacity to love when there is a risk of loss. It’s easy to say you love somebody, but you really don’t know the extent of that emotion unless you have gone through the process of losing that special someone. Let’s put it this way. However good it feels to love somebody and to be loved by a special someone, it isn’t really love until the pain of the hurt of loss is equally real.
The risk of having your heart broken is always present in any kind of romance. Sadly, a heartbreak happens. The good news is it doesn’t have to be the end. It doesn’t have to turn you into a worse person. Worst of all, it doesn’t have to turn you off to the whole concept of loving or being loved. Finally, it doesn’t have to hurt forever. Sure, it hurts right now. It may seem like it’s going to hurt so bad for so long. However, this is temporary. This too shall pass.